The years of Soviet atheism have practically eradicated official church etiquette from the life of our fellow citizens. Many today do not know how to turn to clergy. And, if such a need suddenly arises, a person who is far from complying with church canons may find himself in an uncomfortable position. Especially if foreign "padres" and "holy father" were put off in his mind. In fact, the priest of the Russian Orthodox Church, especially the patriarch, must be addressed in accordance with special rules.
Instruction manual
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It should be noted that you can hardly succeed in a chat with the Patriarch of Moscow and All Russia. His Holiness Vladyka Kirill, although actively conducting pastoral work and constantly communicating with the people, all his outings are under strict control. Special services monitor the safety of the head of the Russian Orthodox Church no worse than the safety of the country's president. The patriarch blesses ordinary parishioners, says parting words to them. Long dialogues, as a rule, are preceded by preliminary preparation, one might even say instruction.
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But if, nevertheless, such a case presents itself, you should contact the patriarch: "Your Holiness" and "Vladyka" (well, or more modern: "Vladyka"). Since it is customary for Orthodox Christians to ask for a blessing from a clergyman for all actions, including at a meeting, it will be more appropriate to say first: "Lord, bless." And then to talk about the main thing, referring to the patriarch: "Your Holiness
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In an official written speech, the patriarch can be addressed with the words: "Your Eminence
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However, words are far from everything in the process of communication. Gestures are also very important, they can tell a lot about a person. It happens that a layman, wanting to show that he is not a stranger to the church, begins to be baptized at the sight of a clergyman. It is not right. Having met a familiar clergyman in a public place, a well-educated person is sure to greet, and the church-goer can slightly bow his head. In closer communication, it is necessary to fold the right hand on top of the left - so you show that you are asking for a blessing. When addressing the patriarch, the same rule applies.
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But what if you are an atheist or a representative of another faith? If this is a matter of principle, and you cannot turn to the patriarch in accordance with church etiquette, you can do this not as a true believer. The main thing is to show yourself as a well-mannered person. For example, say: "Dear, " "Sir."
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Is it possible to say: "Father" or "Father?" The priest is simply called priests among the people. This is a familiar appeal. Father is more formal. Any clergyman can be called a father - there will be no gross mistake.
