Success and success lead a person to happiness. This statement is repeated without the slightest irony, like a spell, by modern psychotherapists and coaches. A positive result in any field of activity is regarded as the basis for future well-being. However, there is still no rigorous and unambiguous formula for human happiness. Dmitry Khara tried to fill the cavity and formulate the main criteria by which you can assess the level of satisfaction with your life.
Experience is the son of difficult mistakes
The biography of Dmitry Khara evolved into a general picture from a mosaic of events and actions. The future consultant on the psychology of success was born in 1976. Aboriginal Leningrad. The child was the only one among the parents. Father positioned himself as an artist. Mother worked as an economist. It is natural to assume that the family, even by the standards of the Soviet era, did not live well. Personality development and character formation took place in an environment where education and health care were free.
The loss of parents and fundamental changes in the state coincided in time. Dmitry was left to his own devices. Without material and moral support. The world around him was completely neutral towards the teenager. Need work? Seek. Want to have a personal life? Arrange. And no one cares how you live and what values you are guided by. In such a tough and often aggressive environment, it is not surprising to lose your bearings, lose faith in your abilities and surrender to chance.
The young man mobilized internally, found the strength and resources in himself to take control of the situation. A successful career has developed consistently and purposefully. At the start, it is very important to catch the main trend, the main vector. Understand how society lives and what goals loom over the horizon. For a significant number of people, the planning horizon does not exceed a year. A longer perspective is not even considered. Dmitry had to work as a cabinetmaker. Collaborate with the newspaper as a freelance correspondent. Protect the bank and create a night club.
