In accordance with the established foundations, Orthodox people respect the deceased and everything that remains after them. In this regard, often there is a misunderstanding of whether it is possible to wear things after a dead person? To understand the situation can help the opinion of the priest.
Opinion of Archpriest Alexander Dokolin, rector of the churches of the Moscow Patriarchate
In Orthodoxy, it is believed that all the good that lived in a person during his life, after his death, continues to live in his things. This is a legacy that in no case should be buried and, moreover, simply burned or thrown away. And to wear things after a dead person means to cherish the memory of him and show respect. Not without reason have long been clothes and jewelry, and even relics remaining after the departure of the saints, remained in the preservation of the Church.
Another thing is when the things of the deceased become the subject of contention between relatives, each of whom seeks to become the sole heir. Clothing and valuables of the deceased should not be turned into a source of negativity and malice. If you are faced with a similar situation, and you are not sure that the only one is claiming things of a relative, give them to the one who is more worthy.
There are such household items and even robes that cause negativity in loved ones or are associated with the sinful activities of the deceased in life. If they do cause spiritual suffering, they should be burned if further use is not possible. But it is important to remember that nothing in this world should be wasted. If possible, contact the priest and ask to light the things of the deceased person, causing unpleasant feelings and memories.
