Imagine the situation: a person just came home, relaxed, tuned in for a pleasant evening and the implementation of some personal plans. Suddenly, the intercom begins to ring loudly and a cloying voice reports that uninvited guests have arrived.
Instruction manual
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Cultivate self-confidence. Maybe the problem lies in your attitude to the situation. Consider a line of conduct during visits by unwanted guests. You must learn to tactfully and directly express your desires, feelings and preferences.
2
Learn to say no. With a sincere desire to refuse some people, a feeling of self-doubt or even fear of being a "black sheep" is triggered. A fair refusal in such cases becomes an impossible task. If you want to be liked by everyone around you, be able to listen, help find solutions even to the detriment of your own interests, do not be surprised that you attract intrusive and unwanted guests like a magnet. To get rid of them and drive them away, learn to build beliefs and hold on to them and value them. Most likely, it will be necessary to bring some changes to life and change habits.
3
Act on enemy methods. Sometimes it brings good results. For example, if the behavior of friends is far from tact, emphasize the use of false compliments and wishes. If you have to cook dinner, you can confidently shift it to your guests, but warn them that the hostess in this house is alone.
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Try to perceive everything that happens with a smile. Behave as if you need help at the very moment your neighbor comes: you need to remodel the carpet, remove the curtains, peel the potatoes, and it would be nice to run into the store.
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Colorfully and with all the details describe any events you witness, not allowing your intrusive guests to open their mouths. You can even benefit from this for your development. Analyze and reason primitively, childishly, aloud. Faced with this behavior several times, unwanted guests will try to leave early, and later will be less likely to appear in your house.
