Mate has long been considered an integral part of culture, and therefore today few pay attention to it. Less and less often they make comments to people who “sprinkle” swear words. Those who are used to cursing are sure: it is obscene words that make it possible to simplify the argumentation of speech and provide an opportunity to express emotions. But there are, fortunately, people who consider the mat outrageous and unacceptable.
In fact, if you think about it, then swearing is not just unethical. It is also an expression of contempt for the opinions of others. So why can’t you swear?
It is known that abuse can be used both for expressing emotions (in case of failure, in a conflict situation, and so on), and for a bunch of words. In the second case, swear words often "fill the gap" in the vocabulary. If speech is poor, “well, ” “shorter, ” appear, and if a person is also ill-mannered, then there are swearing expressions. People get so used to the mat that sometimes it becomes a bad habit, getting rid of which is not easier than, for example, stop drinking or smoking.
If a person cannot do without a mat, this means that he has any complexes, he simply cannot competently build his speech. But some swear so masterfully that it seems as though this art was a man who honed his whole life. But in any case, listening to swear words is unpleasant.
Especially you need to pay attention to your speech to people who have small children. Kids easily, literally "on the fly" grab every word, repeat after mom and dad. So watch what you say. Even if you accidentally hit a hammer on your finger or slipped and fell, do not swear.
Think in advance what you can say in such cases. Indeed, the mat can very easily be replaced by interjections, which are plentiful in the Russian language. Watch not only for the absence of swear words in speech, but also for the purity of the language as a whole. Let there be no parasitic words, various jargon. Make it a strict rule.
But if a child “brought” a bad word from a kindergarten or school, you need to immediately talk to him, strictly, but quite softly. Explain to your child that cursing is ugly. Give examples when abusive words and expressions let people down, put them in an unpleasant position.
There are times when a child hears an abusive word somewhere and asks parents to explain its meaning. Tell that only bad people who want to offend someone say this word. If you explain everything gently and correctly, then most likely your children will no longer want to use words that do not at all adorn the great Russian language when communicating with you and peers.
