At a time when the whole world made a decisive turn in the direction of communication in a virtual way, many people pay attention that the traditional types of contact between people have become very flawed. Nowadays, verbal communication in a tête-à-tête format is becoming particularly relevant in this context.
Female pickup is not a new concept, but much younger than a male pickup. The era is changing, and mores are changing. Today there is no longer room for prejudice that a man should be the first to get to know that a man is a hunter and a woman is his victim. But you can’t discount that when meeting a woman who is too active, it’s always bad manners!
Pickup is the art of seduction. He can and should learn. Not all women possess the gift of seduction. There is no need to do anything else: such a man will enter the society of men, and they will flock to her like moths into the light and circle around tirelessly. Such a woman has a beckoning, but keeping her eye on the distance, as if warning - carefully, you will burn your wings. Her movements are light and graceful, like a cat's, her voice is low and with a slight hoarseness, and a wandering smile on her face. All this is gifted by nature, but all of this can be learned.
So, a few tips for beginning pick-ups:
1. Before meeting you must set a goal. What is required of the object of seduction: light flirtation, a stormy and short-term romance, or a long-term and serious relationship ?! Yes, you need to set a very real task. Love at the present time is a rarity, a rarity, and not everyone is destined to experience it, and sometimes only to the elect. But you need to live.
2. From the very beginning it is necessary to remember the “enemies of seduction”: inviting looks, fussiness, talkativeness, loud laughter, overly open clothes. All this has the opposite effect. If in the first minutes such a lady attracts attention, then later her "activity" will become annoying. No alcohol! A little liberating, removing uncertainty, blurring the boundaries of decency. It seems to a woman that she looks sexy, but this is far from the case. Half the trouble, if it looks comical, but often vulgar. Moreover, the seductress, who went on the “hunt” and seeing a worthy “victim”, experiences a powerful release of adrenaline into the blood. It acts stronger than any alcohol, but at the same time does not allow you to lose control. External signs in the form of gleam in the eyes, agitation of movements are introduced into the trance of the most experienced “males”.
3. No dancing at the bar! You need to be sure that you are dancing beautifully, since absurd and awkward movements will bring the opposite effect. If, however, the lessons of pylon dance were taken, they can be considered appropriate in private with the object of seduction, rather than showing off the entire military company. After all, a man who he liked will find such behavior obscene, be wounded and lose interest.
4. When a “fish on a hook” needs to be weakened, but not overlooked — let it “swim” for some more time before making a fatal “hook”.
5. The first impression is actually not difficult to make on the object of claim, using the simplest pickup rules. The most difficult thing is to keep this impression and push the boundaries of further life with those to whom it is made. Relaxation in the intimate sphere, freedom from prejudice, independence, lack of aggression, domestic intelligence - these are the basic components. And if they are not qualities of character, then all efforts will come to naught, and the relationship will end. Therefore, in addition to memorizing the correct behavior when meeting people, honing external data, you need to work on your inner world, improving it every day. There is no limit to perfection!
