The modern world is not an easy place to live. Every day we come across many people. Often these people are pleasant to us, even more often unpleasant, and in exceptional cases, they do pose a danger to us. We are talking about those cases when the person with whom we are in contact wants to deceive us. It is difficult to limit communication with people, let alone stop, and on this basis the question arises of how to protect ourselves from deception, which lies in wait for us everywhere.
Instruction manual
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Go to lie recognition training. Only some people are able, without a twinge of conscience, to deceive a stranger. But it is unlikely that without preliminary preparation you will be able to distinguish a liar from a good person. To do this, attend a training or seminar that talks about how to determine if a person is lying or not. Perhaps you will be able to recognize a lie right away, or you may need time. But in any case, the money and time invested in this kind of training will justify itself, because every person needs to have this kind of knowledge.
2
Be careful. Never trust strangers, no matter how beautiful they seem to you. Always check the information given to you and never lend money to unfamiliar ones. All these tips seem obvious, but very many forget about the basic rules of personal security and fall for the tricks of fraudsters. Do not be naive - there are many sneakers and liars around.
3
Read Alan Pisa's book Body Language. It says a lot about how to find out by facial expressions, gestures and body posture, whether the person speaking to you is lying right now. Armed with new knowledge, go to your friends to test yourself. If you begin to put this knowledge into practice, it will become much easier for you to notice the fraud on the way, and this will undoubtedly help you protect yourself from it.
4
Do not contact those people who already once deceived you. Do not conduct business with them and do not agree to help them. Remember - a person who has lied once is deprived of trust forever. Do not step on the same rake, do not trust famous liars, and this will help you avoid many troubles.
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Check all the necessary documents in the case of serious and financial issues. Be sure to find out in advance about your rights and the rights of your partner, do not trust anyone else to do your business. Remember that only you are responsible for your actions, therefore, always take seriously any event related to money.
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Accept that one day you will still be deceived and do not lose heart because of this. Being deceived, be sure to take a certain experience out of the situation, draw your conclusions and move on, trusting people, but now with some caution.
