In youth, it’s hard for us to understand why these old men are so eternally restless in their discontent, why they always moan, and they don’t like everything - and you don’t go on dates like that, and your clothes are like a ragged man, and you have expressions some indecent, and in general you have no conscience left, but in their time … In a word, our old people love to grumble.
Indeed, because of their age, they have a hard time living, they do not keep pace with the modern pace of life, they like memories of youth to such an extent that they even get too hung up on them. All this can explain their intractable behavior. But until you yourself experience it all on yourself, these words will remain words. Just try to understand them. And do not think that they are so hard to please. Old people simply suffer from a lack of attention. Give them to him, and you will see how they will sharply become younger, and their behavior will greatly change for the better. And there, next to the attention, you, in turn, will find respect for the elderly.
Despite the fact that our old people suffer from visual impairment, memory and hearing impairment, you cannot refuse them a kind of everyday wisdom. Listen to what they say and try to shift the essence to our realities. You will find that in their words there are rational grains.
Stop annoying if your grandparents are interested in your hobbies. In most cases, old people remain young in soul, but worry that due to age they could not realize themselves in something. Try to draw the parents of the parents to your hobby. Perhaps together it will be even more fun for you, and the old man’s ingenuity will tell you something interesting.
Help the elderly, all of a sudden, no one else can help them except you. But do it right - some old people are very shy, especially when it comes to modern youth. Give them presents. Just like that, without reason and from a pure heart. The warmth that is born at this moment in the eyes of the elderly has nothing to compare in life.
