Sometimes you find yourself in a situation where you want to talk, but don’t know what. There are people who always know how to find the right words. However, this skill is very rarely congenital, most often it needs to be developed in yourself. There are several most effective ways.
Instruction manual
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If you want to start a conversation with a girl that you like, the easiest way to start is with a template. There are many manuals on the so-called pickup (ability to start a relationship with a girl), which offers various phrases with which you can start communication. Basically, these are jokes, aphorisms of great philosophers and writers. They provide an opportunity not only to start a conversation, but also give you courage. For example, the Elvis template begins with the young man coming up to the girl, always smiling, and saying: "Hi, do you know that Elvis Presley dyed his hair?" A pause is held, and the guy continues: "In fact, he was a blonde."
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Uncomplicated general phrases act encouragingly for both girls and young people, and the conversation develops by itself. In the future, try to maintain a line of conversation that impresses the girl, to find in memory all the knowledge on this topic and try to prevent the conversation from reaching a dead end.
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When a girl meets a guy, often nothing special needs to be done. It is usually a man’s prerogative to develop conversation. But it so happens that a young man admired female beauty so much that he was confused and could not take the initiative in his own hands. Then you have to act on your own.
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Initially - show curiosity. Men often claim that they do not like this feminine quality, in fact, in their eyes you become nicer and more feminine, the main thing is not to go too deep into personal moments. Having found out as much as possible about his hobbies, you will get the opportunity to develop the conversation almost to infinity.
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Moving from a one-way conversation, when you just listened and asked questions, to a discussion of interests, try not to express unambiguous opinions. You still don’t know the person very well, and the categorical “I don’t like it” can push him away. After all, perhaps this is the only thing that significantly differentiates your views.
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With any type of communication, try to observe the following rules. Do not discuss sensitive or controversial issues until at least remotely establish the opinion of another person. After all, you can seriously hurt him if he, for example, is a believer, and you are an atheist (s). Show sincere interest, this always encourages the person to talk. A casual conversation about insignificant things (but, preferably, not as banal as the weather) is the best way to make acquaintance.
