Most often, a person grows among conventions and rules invented by other people. Therefore, the "average" life passes according to similar scenarios. Many habits, actions, and even worldview, as in a circle, are transmitted from parents to children. To live life not like everyone else, you will have to not just change the rules of behavior, you need to change your perception of the world.
If the idea of ​​living differently is not youthful maximalism and not a stupid denial of life, but a balanced and clear desire, then you need to be prepared for the initial difficulties and misunderstanding of others. In any case, a person rather compares himself with relatives, acquaintances, with people from his region and country, rather than with spiritual ideals.
Therefore, in need of fundamental changes, you can decide on the following actions:
- change the place of residence to a completely new region with a different culture and customs, learning a completely different reality;
- learn to listen to yourself, your desires, live in harmony and in accordance with talents and abilities;
- get rid of prejudice and not look back at public opinion.
Freedom of mind and soul
First of all, a person should accept himself, understand that he is not obliged in everything to be like other people, even very worthy people. After all, work that is consistent with talents and interests will give not just a sense of freedom, but will relieve you of a sense of limitation, compulsion and hopelessness.
Therefore, in terms of labor, one should do what brings pleasure. Even if for this you need to change your profession, resume training, or at first be content with little money. A rare person chooses a profession to their liking, and not because parents said so or circumstances.
We need to learn to think outside the box, to perceive the world from different angles, to avoid the one-sidedness and polarity of judgments. People are often categorical, limited, afraid to be misunderstood and different from others, so they live a life according to the pattern.
Harmony in the family
Family relationships often become a burden, a forced fact with which to put up. Marriages break up due to unjustified expectations and lack of consent. Therefore, before entering into a close relationship, you must clearly understand why this is necessary.
You should never break yourself and create a family that is not appropriate, to have children who are not welcome, simply because "the time has come", "like everyone else", "like that." From a permanent life contrary to desires and needs there will be only one misfortune.
You need to organize your life in a way that is convenient, and not as usual. It is foolish to divide responsibilities into "female" and "male", if at the same time all the time you need to sacrifice something.
