Parting is always stress for both sides, both for a woman and for a man. Not everyone is able to endure the separation with dignity, holding himself in his hands and calmly experiencing the events. Many people prefer to clutch at the outgoing relationship with the last effort, even if they understand that this relationship has come to an end. How to part with a person, and how to make an important decision about parting?
Instruction manual
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First of all, never give up your decisions. If you decide that you want to part with a person, follow this decision at all costs, without indulging your weaknesses and desires. Answer honestly the question of whether you are able to let go of the person with whom you have lived for some time and start a new life.
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Try to seriously and calmly talk with your partner - if the relationship is obsolete, both of you will feel relief from ending it. Be honest with your partner - tell him that you do not see further prospects from your joint future, but emphasize that you still respect and appreciate the person who lived near you.
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After parting, try not to encounter a former partner - do not contact him, do not call him or write. Even if you live for some reason in the same room, settle in different rooms and share the property.
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If you want to maintain friendly relations with the former partner, wait a long time until the pain of parting settles down, and only then try to renew the relationship.
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For the correct and final farewell to a person, be honest not only with him, but also with yourself. Be aware of the motives of your actions, do not commit rash and impulsive actions, do not deny the obvious.
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Do not be afraid of the unknown - even if now you experience the pain of parting, the joy of new acquaintances and new events in life will drown it out. Always voice your decision to leave - first to yourself, and then to your partner.
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Do not try to keep silent about the problems - do as you see fit and explain the reasons for your actions. Do not forget to show respect for your partner, even if he offended you - such an attitude says a lot about your inner dignity. Start a new life and release the past - and parting will not seem to you such a negative event.
