Perhaps the most difficult moment when meeting with girls for young people is the first conversation. There are whole dating systems, but the beautiful ladies themselves most value sincerity and courtesy.
Instruction manual
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Do not be afraid to start dating by introducing yourself. This is not only a completely natural beginning for social talk, but also the observance of elementary rules of politeness. Give your name in full (Andrey) or briefly (Sasha), but not diminutive forms (for example, Slavik) and not what friends call you (Dimon, Kolyan and other names that are relevant in your established company, but not in conversation with a stranger). Do not introduce yourself by name and patronymic, even if the interlocutor is twice as young as you. After all, you are counting on a romantic feeling and do not want to associate for her with a teacher or boss.
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Turn to a stranger on “you” if you want to show yourself a polite person. The exception is when you are at a friendly party, but have not been introduced to each other before. It is interesting that the dating system, known as a pickup (from the English pick up - pick up, take off), recommends talking with the girls to "you". Given that pickupers are interested in easy, non-binding relationships with quick intimacy, their logic is clear: if the interlocutor allows you to reduce the distance from the very first phrases, then it will not refuse further rapprochement.
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Despite the abundance of intricate formulas that you can start a conversation with a girl you like, the most effective way to get acquainted is a simple phrase: "I really liked you, and I would be glad to see you again." Such treatment is quite appropriate on the street, in transport, and even in traffic jams. Learned formulas for dating are good only when the young man has enough self-confidence and artistry to pass them off as impromptu. In the end, what’s important is not the words you say, but intonations, glances, gestures. A slight embarrassment will even appeal to a girl if she sees you not as a “tenant, ” but as a serious gentleman.
Useful advice
Do not introduce yourself to who you are not. You can impersonate a director or producer if, in your interests, you can confuse a naive girl’s head. And let a serious acquaintance begin with sincerity and honesty.
