Our rulers continually complain - the birth rate has fallen, we need to raise it. That is the question - how to increase it? Where is the "family" in the original meaning of the word and is it real in our time?
Instruction manual
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Like it or not, most families, thinking about when to have children, are not least thinking about the material side of the issue. Even the notorious crib and stroller will absorb as much finance as regular purchase of diapers, food, clothes. For example, a pair of children's shoes costs about one and a half thousand. And the baby will only have enough shoes for a couple of months.
At the same time, children's benefits, combined with the “milk payment”, amount to a little more than 700 rubles a month.
In addition, many young families have an acute housing problem. If the two huddle in a removable "odnushka" it seems quite normal, then with the advent of at least one child, the question arises of more spacious housing. Often, for this reason, the birth of a second baby is delayed.
Unfortunately, the state has done little to solve these problems. Raising salaries, resolving the issue with square meters would be an incentive. Not in the sense that for the sake of money, but at least it’s not scary for their children to be where they live and what they have.
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The kid grows up, goes to kindergarten, the line in which you need to take immediately after receiving a birth certificate. And then, not the fact that you get, alas. But usually this does not mean that mom can safely go to work. At first, children often get sick, days off, sick leave, bosses are usually not enthusiastic. For this reason, many mothers prefer a career. And the birth of a child is postponed "for later." But here parents themselves must decide on priorities in this period of life.
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Basically, everything is initially in our head. Money is money, but often the poor give birth to many children, and the rich live in three-story mansions together. If a person does not want to, he cannot be persuaded by either maternal capital or calls to give birth to second and third children. A few children in the family are good. This is a school of communication, interaction. Seniors often teach something to younger ones. And most importantly - a brother or sister - a native person for life.
