Attractive at first, the friend zone is very insidious. Having become friends with a person you like, it is difficult to establish a romantic relationship with him. If you act tactfully and carefully, there is still a chance to leave the zone of friendship and enter the territory of love.
Instruction manual
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Before you begin to penetrate into the romantic zone of a person who considers you a friend, accept the fact that there is a chance of losing him altogether. But you have many advantages over other candidates for the heart of a lover / lover, because you already know his / her interests and hobbies.
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Remember what qualities are important to your friend. Actively develop and emphasize them. The guy does not need to be aware of all women's problems, move away from the discussion of cosmetics, evening dresses and problems in cellulite. The girl should stop wearing only jeans and sweatshirts, pull out all the skirts and other feminine outfits from the closet. That is, if you want to leave the friendship zone, you need to become a bright representative of your gender so that you are not mistaken for "your boyfriend" (in the case of a girl) and for your "girlfriend" (if you want to stop being just a friend, a young man).
3
Actively flirt. And not only with the object of your desire. Proprietary jealousy should wake up in your friend and encourage him to take any action to return "property".
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Show your independence. If earlier a person with whom you are in love could ask you something and know for sure that you will do it, now declare your own plans, which did not include the fulfillment of all the desires of the “friend”.
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Usually, girls at this moment begin to be offended and defiantly draw closer to another favorite. But this is only to your advantage, because it means that she has ceased to see in you an asexual being. Guys behave more indifferently, but it gives you time to completely transform. Work on your image very carefully. You may need the help of a stylist, makeup artist and even a psychologist. But on the other hand, the result of turning the usual unnoticed unisex girl into a luxurious seductive person will be amazing.
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Now destroy the physical barrier, subtly and delicately penetrate into the personal area of your beloved / beloved, not as a friend, but as a challenger. No more motherly hugs and pats on the shoulder, rollicking brutal greetings and comforting gestures. Hugs, if the object is trying to get into them, should become different. A guy who wants to get out of the friend zone should not hug the girl by the shoulders, but by the waist. The girl should put her hands on the man’s neck so that he looks at her with different eyes.
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If you are called to come, react to this as a date of invitation. Behave accordingly in a meeting. A guy comes with flowers, and a girl comes in a beautiful dress. If the reaction is negative, just tell us about your feelings in order to dot the "and".
note
If you are not able to turn from a friend into a partner, do not repeat such mistakes in the future. Do not become a friend just to be with someone you love.
Helpful advice
Unexpected romantic gestures and actions can make you look at you from a different point of view, not like a friend.
