Every person from time to time encounters communication that is unpleasant for him. Your interlocutor may be too curious or annoying. The basis of the behavior of such people is psychological vampirism. How to stop such communication, remaining moderately polite and calm?
Instruction manual
1
Try using the excuse method before you start an upcoming conversation. Tell me that you are waiting for guests and you have no time or your favorite cat (dog) has gotten sick and you need to urgently take her to the veterinarian. The main thing is not to enter into a conversation from which it will not be so easy to get out later.
2
Tell your interlocutor firmly that you are busy. Feel free to interrupt the flow of his verbal outpourings. You can even lie about an event or something else. In this case, a lie will be good for you. Feel free to drop the conversation almost directly.
3
Be curious during the conversation. Ask a lot of questions, let them be completely inconsistent. Shoot down the annoying interlocutor from the course of his story.
4
Tell someone you are bored with. You can use phrases such as: "I do not care
", " Let's talk about something else
"etc. At the same time, the topics you are talking about should be completely unrelated.
5
Use a phone call to save from an energy vampire. If they don’t call you, then call yourself someone you know or pretend they called. Come up with some kind of stupid dialogue with an imaginary telephone interlocutor.
6
Do not participate in the conversation, and your silent presence is enough. Occasionally nod your head, say yes or no out of place. The main thing for you is to try to keep for yourself the opportunity to think about something your own.
7
Do not try to become a personal psychologist for such a person, do not try to influence his character and manner of behavior. All this will be completely useless to him, and at the end of such a conversation you will feel physical and moral emptiness.
eight
Imagine in the process of communicating with an annoying interlocutor that you are separated by a mirror facing your opponent, or imagine that you have a hat on your head or you are under an umbrella. All of these tricks prevent the leakage of your energy.
