To choose one of several alternative options is a difficult task, which, sadly, has to face daily. It is also difficult to make a choice because it often takes months, or even years, before we realize whether it was right or not.
Instruction manual
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First of all, decide for yourself that no matter how difficult the choice is, you will try to resolve this issue as quickly as possible. It is possible to delay decision making ad infinitum, but almost never does this relieve you of the need to still dwell on one of the options. But the choice made intuitively in the first minutes often turns out to be right.
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When faced with a difficult choice, an old good remedy can help you - weigh the pros and cons. Take the time to make a list on paper for clarity and honestly fill in both columns. Just one extra point in one of them can already tell you what to do in this situation.
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Trust your intuition. Listen to yourself and be honest, what do you want to do? You can conduct an experiment - toss a coin, let the “heads” and “tails” correspond to the options you are inclined to. When the coin falls and it becomes clear which one fell to you - analyze what feelings you feel, disappointment or relief? Based on this, make your choice - practice shows that the inner voice is mistaken at times less.
