Man by nature simply cannot help communicating with his own kind. At home, at work, on vacation there are sure to be "good guys" with whom you can have a great time. But often the circumstances are such that you have to deal with unpleasant people. Therefore, it is very important to know how to behave with your enemies.
Instruction manual
1
Try to distance yourself from the enemy. This is the easiest way to avoid conflicts. The less often you will see a person that is unpleasant to you, the less there will be reasons for squabbles and quarrels. And this is necessary in order not to waste your nerves.
2
Determine the type of your enemy, if you can’t avoid communicating with him. Of course, it is very convenient when the enemy can simply stop calling, meet with him, etc. But if you are forced to communicate with this person daily? For example, your enemy is a colleague. Then, before undertaking anything, you need to determine who this person is: a brawler, a gossip or a whiner. Each of them has its own ways of neutralizing.
3
Ignore all the antics of the brawler. This type of people is different in that they absolutely do not care with whom, how and for what reason to quarrel. They enjoy the process itself. Your ignoring their screams will nullify all their efforts to get you crazy. Responding to the attacks of the enemy, you only play along with him and thereby aggravate your situation. Agree that a person who is constantly in conflict with someone is more likely to succeed.
4
Stop telling gossip something. This category of enemies is the most dangerous, because they act stealthily. At first, the gossipers seem to be “best friends, ” they listen to all your complaints, assent to all the comments, regret and reassure you. But after some time, you begin to catch mocking looks and hear laughter behind you. Exclude all conversations concerning bosses or influential people if you are faced with a gossip at work. The less information you give out, the less reason you will blame you for anything.
5
Copy the behavior of the whiner when communicating with him. Such people often spend your time and can set you up at any time. They constantly complain about their lives. To stop being a “vest” for such a person, just start spreading to him how bad everything is with you. After a while, you will forget that this person has caused you any inconvenience.
