Sometimes you have to face people who believe that you can gain authority by demonstrating rudeness and rudeness towards others. Such a manner of communication, despite external aggressiveness, is characteristic of weak, insecure and notorious people. However, it will not be easier for you if you are the victim of such an attitude. It’s not worth pretending that nothing happened and letting the offender go, because for him this will only be a permission for new boorish antics.
Instruction manual
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Such people perceive politeness and delicacy as a manifestation of weakness, so instead of being offended and waiting for an apology, internally prepare yourself to fight back, since the attacks will certainly be resumed.
2
You should not go to rudeness, this is not your territory and you will never be the winner. The best way is to put the boor in a funny light and let him know that he will not be able to hide his weakness from you behind the aggression.
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In no case, do not show how much rudeness hurt you, do not give the reason for the boor to find his painful places.
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Observe him, find those weaknesses that he is shy of. You should not be evil - a sense of humor should come to your aid. You can answer rudeness with a witty phrase in which you point out this flaw and make it clear to your opponent that in this way he does not hide him, but only emphasizes.
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Sometimes the boor can be confusing even your silence. Find some noticeable flaw in his appearance or clothing and start looking at it with interest. You can even inquire loudly - how long has a person had this shortcoming, and express his sympathy for him. Go to the discussion of this issue, and continue to be rude, your opponent is unlikely to be able to.
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If offensive jokes continue, it is worth asking at all - what is their reason and express your assumptions about this, which may be offensive to the boor. So you make it clear that you notice rudeness and do not intend to endure his antics.
