We all commit misconduct in life, because of which we suffer and cause difficulties for others. Dostoevsky created an entire book describing the crime and punishment of a young student. If you do not allow fear to take over your soul, in many cases you can eliminate the consequences of error and get rid of possible punishment.
Instruction manual
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Admit your guilt. Do it yourself in front of you. If you are a believer, plead guilty to God. It is important to calm down and not look for excuses. What happened is already in the past. Now you don’t have to execute yourself all your life. It is better to think about what conclusions will prevent this from happening in the future. We must rise and move on. In life, everyone benefits more from a person who seeks creation, not self-destruction.
2
Fix everything you can. Your action or inaction has entailed certain consequences. Think about what can be fixed immediately. Broke the cup - go and buy a new one. No money - write a note to the cup owner that buy it a little later. The main thing is that you immediately begin to build a new life.
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Make a list of what you fixed. Add moments that you don’t know how to fix. The list is very important. Looking at it, you gain confidence in your abilities. You can not eliminate all the consequences yourself. Something cannot be fixed at all. Enter all these points in a separate section of your list, with the necessary explanations.
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Show the list to someone who can punish you. This is the most difficult step. But you have already done so much that nowhere to retreat. Be decisive. In a person’s life, they are often forgiven for admitting guilt and starting to improve. You have already done everything you need, do not stop now.
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If you will be scolded, be silent. If you will be despised, do not pay attention. Time will pass, emotions will settle down, you will begin to be respected for not being afraid to admit guilt.
Useful advice
Do not waste time. The more you save, the more you torture yourself. Do it very fast.
- Whoever caught the first time escapes punishment
- The driver left the scene of an accident leaving a car - what are the consequences?
