Probably everyone wants success. But, no matter how strange it may sound, social status is not determined at all by the qualities of the person himself, but by slightly different factors. Which ones?
Instruction manual
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Appearance.
No matter how trite it may sound, but they will treat you according to how you look. A presentable appearance will always emphasize your style, rationality and ability to hold on. At the same time, if you always wear faded, well-worn items, you will not be taken seriously. Perhaps this seems somewhat unoriginal, but too often people ignore this basic rule.
2
Weighted Speech.
Try to speak little and on business, it will give you weight. Slightly different things - popularity and social status - a chatty buffoon will always be popular among groups of people, however this will not add to his opinion of authority and weightiness. To give yourself some significance, speak confidently, to the best of succinctly, but always having your own opinion. Looking at a well-delivered speech, people perforce evaluate your intelligence.
3
Work, leisure.
Even Machiavelli said in "Sovereign": "Everyone sees the ruler, but only a few can touch. Therefore, the dilemma of" being or appearing "is solved in the obvious direction." This rule applies in everyday life: only a few can communicate with you, and more than a hundred people can see superficially (check friends on social networks). And for these superficial, it is much more important to know that you have a prestigious job and you only relax in expensive clubs. To understand how much you spend in these clubs, no one will.
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Contacts.
Equally important to your appearance and behavior is who your friends are. Moreover, it is not necessary to abandon old acquaintances: it is more important to make new ones. The most reliable and unobtrusive way to expand your circle of acquaintances is, oddly enough, activity. For example, just the desire to put a children's camp in an open area can introduce you to the head of the district administration. The higher goals you set for yourself, the higher people you will meet sooner or later.
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Significant other.
Oddly enough, your partner will directly emphasize your social status. Your beautiful wife will be for friends a constant reminder that the best girls are interested in you, which means a lot. For women, the main indicator of her husband’s quality will not be beauty, but love and desire to please her beloved.
However, your family can, on the contrary, decisively destroy your position in society if all your friends know about the fictitiousness and weakness of the marriage.
note
-Don't try to suck up on people with a higher status. Better make compliments equal.
Helpful advice
-Arriving in a new society, try to immediately make a great impression.
