Do you want to learn how to please people and to attract attention? Or get rid of shyness and tightness? Or maybe you want more - to become a bright personality that attracts the attention of many people?
The recommendations in this article will help you learn how to be in the spotlight!
Instruction manual
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How to attract people's attention?
Attracting the attention of others is the easiest way to be in the spotlight. To attract the attention of other people, you just need to be different from them.
The easiest way to do this is through appearance.
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Clothing. Dress in the latest fashion, or extravagantly. In clothing colors, give preference to bright, catchy colors. If you want to be the focus of the opposite sex, give preference to a sexy style of clothing. For women, for example, it is tight-fitting clothing that emphasizes the seductiveness of forms. Also make one or two small strokes: a cut on a skirt / dress, a neckline or a pair of unbuttoned buttons on a blouse; red stilettos, etc.
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Jewelry. Choose extravagant or ethnic jewelry. Or it can be a decoration with a twist.
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Hairstyle. The easiest way to attract people's attention is to make an unusual hairstyle. But this is optional. The main thing is that the hairstyle should be in harmony with your clothing style and image.
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But appearance is not everything. Your behavior is also important: shocking or mysterious, as you like.
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However, do not forget the proverb: "meet by clothes - escorted by the mind." Do not forget that appearance is still a wrapper, your content is much more important.
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How to get rid of shyness and tightness?
Shyness, shyness, low self-esteem, various complexes - all this very, very hinders being in the spotlight. Even if you do not strive to be in the spotlight, sometimes you still have to do it. For example, speaking in public, giving a speech, expressing an opinion, etc. Shyness and complexes force you to "not protrude", "hide in the sink" and avoid situations where you need to be in the spotlight.
If you are afraid to be in the center of attention, you will not be appreciated, will not be promoted, you will not be able to bring the right impression at the right time. But in this way you are missing your chance. If you are always invisible, you will never realize your full potential.
The best way to learn how to be the center of attention is practice, constant practice in communication. Communicate constantly with a variety of people. Develop your self esteem.
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Do not get hung up on what they think of you. If you are afraid of criticism, stop criticizing yourself. At the moment of communication or speech, do not think about what they think about you. You are not there, there are only thoughts that you want to share, or ideas that you want to convey. When a person talks about something enthusiastically, he does not think about himself at these moments.
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How to become the soul of a company
To become the soul of a company, you need to be able to interest, amuse or amaze people. In general, to be a "ringleader".
Show a sense of humor, wit, tell jokes or describe hilarious stories in faces.
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It’s good if you have some kind of hobby or hobby that you can show your friends. For example, songs with a guitar, or some tricks. Well, if you have a rich imagination and you generate ideas, so you will not get bored.
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True, not everyone can be the soul of a company. For example, if you are self-absorbed introvert. Then why do you play someone else's role? Be yourself first and foremost, be an interesting conversationalist - this is quite enough!
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How to become a bright personality
In the center of attention of people are those people who are something of themselves. People who just want to stand out, make an impression, are superficial. They take external quality for internal content.
Meanwhile, a bright and charismatic personality can dress inconspicuously, behave with modest dignity, not be the soul of the company, and even avoid attention paid to himself.
To become such a person, one must first realize oneself in professional activity. You need to be an individualist and not adapt to the tastes and desires of the majority. You need to be a strong personality. You need to have character in order to achieve your goal. Such - strong and successful - people are always attractive to other people.
