Is there at least one person in our society who has never encountered rudeness in life? Perhaps, only babies have never met with this phenomenon, but they also have everything ahead. A boor can ruin your mood for the whole day, instill insecurity in yourself and your strengths, and deprive you of faith in goodness and justice. Do not ignore boorish behavior, from whoever it comes from. Moreover, there are many methods of dealing with it.
Instruction manual
1
Use his weapon against the boor. Simply put, answer rudeness to rudeness. You can use this technique only if you are absolutely confident in your strength and have an inexhaustible supply of abusive, mocking and insulting remarks. The boor must be answered immediately, without hesitation and not allowing him to come to his senses. You need to speak loudly and quickly, gesticulate vigorously.
2
Break the template for the response to rudeness. Ham is used to the fact that his remarks are usually reacted the same way: they are offended, defended, or trying to inform. Start loudly and mockingly mimic the boor. Or, with exaggerated seriousness, pretend that you are listening carefully to it, agree and catch every word. You can get a notebook and record cues, asking the boor to repeat and not speak too quickly. Very quickly he will forget what he wanted to say.
3
Apply a visualization method. Imagine a fat, glossy leech in the boor’s place. Watch her wriggling body, shiny back and greedy mouth with interest and disgust. Do not try to hide your feelings. Looking at your physiognomy at this moment, anyone will lose the desire to tell you nasty things. This method is well suited to imaginative people.
4
Laugh. Loud, mocking and insulting. Any person has flaws. Look carefully at the boor, at his figure, clothes, hairstyle. Laugh at everything that seems ridiculous or ugly to you. This is perhaps the most effective and tough way to deal with the boor. Against evil ridicule even he is powerless.
5
Sorry for the boor. Only an unhappy, weak and insecure person tries to assert himself at the expense of others. Sympathize politely, coldly and with squeamish pity. Such pity humiliates even the boor.
6
Remember, do not be shy to repulse rudeness, do not accumulate resentment and anger in yourself. And then boors in your environment will be much less. They are just afraid to get in your way.
